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Create your free today and begin hooking up with Upland Swingers right away! How to get started? We have found, and this is not scientific, but it is our experience, that if they do not want to meet for drinks or coffee after an or two, they are not really interested but do not know how to say as such. This is not to say that you should meet and jump into the bed, but meeting is key.
We have found very few people who are what their pics and profile say, us included, we hear many times, "Boy glad we took a chance, you should get better pics" and such. Those who post old pics are easily identified, they have the old hair styles, clothes, etc. As to single men, we have found that MOST of them are unreliable at best. Few are truly swingers, rather they are men who want sex without a relationship. If something they see as better comes along, they will not show for you.
The going to the club idea is probably your best bet, aside from an intro, a few minutes on yahoo, AIM, or MSN messenger to set up a meeting time and place. WHo knows, maybe you just live in a crappy area for lifestyle activities Come to Tampa, it has the most adult orriented businesses per capita than any other metropolitan area in the USA, at least in it did, according to Playboy. But I would call almost everything else a preference, at least as far as swinging is concerned.
One of the biggest hurdles we found when we first entered the lifestyle was people who were upset that, for whatever reason, we didn't want to fuck them. Their mindset was, "We're swingers and you're swingers so what's the problem? Let's fuck! Here are the rules: 1. You must and provide pictures of both your face and body. We are looking for attractive, in-shape guys between 25 - 45 for this group. You must be willing to provide documented proof of no STD's. You must understand fully that these parties are no strings sex and not an invitation into any relationship with any of the women.
You should be comfortable performing for the ladies in a group environment. You will be expected to be straight, but ok with performing oral and anal sex on the ladies. You will also be expected to participate in DP with those who seek it. Special consideration will be given to those singles who have done this in the past and have recommendations from couples in the lifestyle.
You should be comfortable with pictures at the events as many of the couples will be Swingers in Upland in taking photos of the fun. The pictures will not be used for anything other than private collections, and faces will always be removed. You will be required to meet me and my husband at a bar or something similar first to verify your real, punctual, and who you've said you are. We are hoping to get a core group of guys who will be able to attend these parties every month or so. They will sometimes take place on weekends and sometimes on weeknights.
You will not be expected to make every event, and will never be expected to do anything beyond your comfort level. Lastly, there will never be any charge for anything at these events. This is a service for swingers, and as such is for fun only. No amount of money will get you into the group, and once in, you will never be charged for anything. If interested please send us information about yourself and we'll begin putting the group together.
Once this gets going, I think it will be a lot of fun.
I knew a couple who ran a swingers mag. The ladys say it's not the size as long as it's enough now what is "enough"?
I've been too large for one lady and not large enough for one. I think we all seek the perfuct fit and variety is one of the spices of life. Aint research is a wonderful thing! Swingers dying out? We're thinking of taking up pornographic cross- stitching to fill the void. Guess this is just another "Urban Myth"?
Nastione4u - Bi guy wanted in Shreveport - My brother-in-law lives in Benton but he's like really Mormon. On the other hand there are plenty of swingers here in Utah who are Mormon too, so who knows? LOL And don't worry too much about the guys who either can't read, can't comprehend, or are just so horny that they really aren't paying attention to anything other than the fact that your shirt is unbuttoned. Good luck on finding a play buddy!
Speaking of beds This question comes about due to the recent demise of our bed. The most frustrating part of the low-end mattress is the fact that even when it's just the Mrs. Recommendations for soft, silent, and amazingly comfortable mattress sets will be greatly appreciated. It's the worst bar on the island and it's only a matter of time before it closes.
The owner is the rudest person we've ever met and it trickles down to his bartenders. No smiles, no hellos, no nothing, just give us your fucking money. He wouldn't know what a swingers club was if it smacked him on the back of the head. Don't believe the bullshit about not wanting customers to get to drunk so they don't have premium liquor. The truth is they don't have a full liquor and don't have ANY liquor the owner didn't want to spend the extra money to buy one so they serve you beer or "wine based liquor" what the fuck is wine based liquor???? Nowhere in Key West do drinks cost that much and taste so shitty.
And the reason they have ESPN on the television screens is simple, the owner is clueless about what he's doing. They used to have porn on the screens, but they like to keep the front door open So the genius that owns the bar Brilliant move, that will sure set the right mood. Also, nothing like rap crap playing to loud coming out of the speakers to Swingers in Upland the mood for swinging. This place is so bad it's laughable. I sat down and the chair was wet, put my finger in it to see what it was and it was urine!!
Someone had pissed all over the chair!!
That explains why the club always smells bad and everyone calls it Club Pu!!!! All we can say is, buyer beware! The way you responded to this thread is an obvious display of your lack of intelligence about this issue. Maybemor and others are just attempting to make this lifestyle a little safer for all involved. Not sure if you read much but there was a situation recently in Kansas City where a man and his wife were HIV Positive and managed to put a of people at risk of contracting HIV, and these are supposedly "swingers" who know better.
I've been to parties for over 4 years!! Not everyone uses condoms. Maybe you do! But even a condom isn't going to protect you against Herpes!!
You always use latex with oral sex Toki. Even if you get tested for Herpes you still are at risk. You could have contracted it on the weekend, go in on Monday get tested, the whole gamut of tests, get negatives on everything. Then two to three weeks later you come down Swingers in Upland itchy bumps that turn into sores, oh shit, guess what. The reason we need more people to talk about this is people are getting STD's on this site and others like it.
I applaud Rob and his willingness to do what some of you may think is not needed. Toki is a prime example of why you don't play with just anyone! Sure you can't stop everything all the time, and frankly anytime you have sex with multiple partners it's a risk. But let's not be stupid folks, let's be careful. You only have this life to live, why fuck it up for yourself and the one you love because you are stupid?
I wrote a long post a few months ago about our own experience with the STD issue. I received a of posts about others who carry HSV2. K Do we need to remind people that if they don't want to read about a subject on the forum they do not have to click on it? But in the meantime, until all potential risks from having sex are wiped out, reminders to get tested, practice safe sex, and having open dialogues are not going anywhere. If it reading about hits a nerve perhaps you seriously need to ask yourself WHY.
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